Should he get clipped of should I??

My husband and I just had our second baby and we know that we need to be realllllly sure we dont have another since we couldnt support more than two right now he wants to make sure one of us gets clipped. Unfortunately I am terrified of surgery and not only that but I have had two babies since December of 06 (thats a little more than a year) and I am sick to death of hospitals. I kinda feel like a vasectomy is an in office procedure that takes just a few minutes...why should I have to sit in a hospital and then deal with a two week recovery time when it would be so simple for him...not to mention the fact that he is the one who thinks it needs to be done and he is also the one who "needs" so much. Honestly if I had the choice between surgery or no ...I would really not mind being abstinent. Then again I know I need to fulfill his needs and for him I would do it but I just sort of dont think its fair, I dont feel like I should have to do that. On the other hand I am really cont..